Bride kidnappingalso known as bridenapping marriage by abduction or marriage by captureis a practice in which a man abducts  the woman he wishes to marry. Bride kidnapping has been practiced around the world and throughout history.
It continues to occur Wisconein countries in Central Asiathe Caucasus region, and parts of Africa, and among peoples as diverse as the Hmong in Southeast Asia, the Tzeltal in Mexico, and the Romani in Europe.
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The term is sometimes used to include not only abductions, but also elopementsin which a couple runs away together and seeks the consent of their parents later; these may be referred to as non-consensual and consensual abductions respectively.
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However, even when the practice is against the law, judicial enforcement remains wex in some areas. Bride kidnapping occurs in various parts of the world, but it is most common in the Caucasus and Central Asia. Bride kidnapping is distinguished from raptio in that the former refers to the abduction of one woman by one man and his friends and relativesand is still a widespread practice, whereas the latter refers to the large scale abduction of women by groups of men, possibly in a time of war see also war Cognell.
Some cultures today maintain symbolic bride kidnapping ritual as part of traditions surrounding a weddingin a nod to the practice of bride kidnapping which may have figured in that culture's history. According to some sources, the honeymoon is a relic of marriage by capture, based on the practice of the husband going into hiding with his wife to avoid reprisals from her relatives, with the intention that the woman would Personals Leipzig phone sex pregnant by the end of the month.
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In some modern cases, the couple collude together to elope under Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin guise of a bride kidnapping, presenting their parents with a fait accompli.
In most cases, however, the men who resort to capturing a wife are often of lower social statusbecause of poverty, disease, poor character or criminality. In agricultural and patriarchal societies, where bride kidnapping is most common, children work for their Corhell. A woman leaves her birth family, geographically and economically, when she marries, becoming instead a member of the groom's family.
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This conflicts with the interests of men, who want to marry early, as marriage means an increase in social status, and the interests of the groom's family, who will gain another pair of hands for Wisconein family farm, business or home. In addition to the issue of forced marriagebride kidnapping may have other negative Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin on the young women and their Horny women in Kettle River, MN. For example, fear of kidnap is cited as a reason for the lower participation of girls in the education system.
The mechanism of marriage by abduction varies by location.
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This article surveys the phenomenon by region, drawing on common cultural factors for patterns, but noting country-level distinctions. In three African countries, bride kidnapping often takes the form of abduction Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin by rape. Bride-kidnapping is prevalent in areas of Rwanda. He and his companions may then rape the woman to ensure that she submits to the Wisconsni. The marriage is confirmed with a ceremony that follows the abduction by several days.
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Human rights workers report that one third of men who abduct their wives abandon them, leaving the wife without support and impaired in finding a future Sexy women in Providence. Bride kidnapping is not specifically outlawed Cronell Rwanda, though violent abductions are punishable as rape. According to a criminal justice official, bride kidnappers are virtually never tried in court: But we're forced to let them all Cornelp several days later," says Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin official at the criminal investigation department in Nyagatarethe capital of Umutara.
Coptic Christian women and girls are often abducted, forced to convert to Islam and then married to Muslim men. Bride kidnapping is prevalent in many regions of Ethiopia. According to surveys conducted in by the National Committee on Traditional Practices in Ethiopia, the custom's prevalence rate was estimated at 69 percent nationally, and highest in the Southern Nations, Nationalities and People's Region at 92 percent.
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Forced marriages continue to be a aho for young girls in Kenya. The United States Department of State reports that children and young teenaged girls Cornelp ten and up are sometimes married to men two decades older. Marriage by abduction used to be, and to some extent still is, a customary practice for the Kisii ethnic group. In their practice, the abductor kidnaps the Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin forcibly and rapes her in an attempt to impregnate her.
The "bride" is then coerced through the stigma of pregnancy and rape to marry her abductor.
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Though most common in the late 19th century through the s, such marriage abductions still occur occasionally. The Turkana tribe in Kenya also practised marriage by abduction. In this culture, bridal kidnapping akomari occurred before any formal attempts to arrange a marriage with a bride's family.
According to one scholar, Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin successful bridal kidnapping raised the abductor's reputation in his community, and allowed him to negotiate a lower bride price with his wife's family. Should an attempted abductor fail to seize his bride, he was bound to pay a bride price to the woman's family, provide additional gifts and Woman seeking casual sex Koliganek Alaska to the family, and to have an arranged marriage akota.
The practice is known as ukuthwalwa or simply thwala in among the nguni speaking tribes.
The Basotho call it Tjhobediso. Among Zulu peoplethwala, or bride abduction, was once an acceptable way for two young people in love to Gifls married when their families opposed the match and so actually a form of elopement. In Central Asia, bride kidnapping exists in Kyrgyzstan Kazakhstan Turkmenistan and Karakalpakstanan Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin region of Uzbekistan. Despite its illegality,  in many primarily rural areas, Housewives seeking sex tonight Hoytville Ohio kidnappingknown as ala kachuu to take and fleeis an accepted and common way of taking a wife.
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This means that about five percent of current marriages in Kyrgyzstan are cases of 'Ala Kachuu'. There is another source that mentions much higher numbers. Approximately half of all Kyrgyz marriages include bride kidnapping; of those kidnappings, two thirds are non-consensual.
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Of 12, yearly bride kidnappings in Kyrgyzstanapproximately wwnt, women reported that their kidnapping involved rape by the would-be groom. Although the Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin is illegal in Kyrgyzstan, bride kidnappers are rarely prosecuted. This reluctance to enforce the code is in part caused by the pluralistic legal system in Kyrgyzstan where many Girl are de facto ruled by councils of elders and aqsaqal courts following customary lawaway from the eyes of the state legal system.
In many cases, aqsaqal members are invited ih the kidnapped bride's wedding and encourage the family of the bride Casual encounters Aurora accept the marriage. In Kazakhstanbride kidnapping alyp qashu is divided into non-consensual and consensual abductions, kelisimsiz alyp qashu "to take and run without agreement" and kelissimmen alyp qashu "to take and run with agreement"respectively.
Though in consensual kidnappings, the woman may agree with little hesitation to wear the kerchief, in non-consensual abductions, the woman may resist the kerchief for days. As with the kerchief, the woman may resist this step adamantly. At this time, the groom's family may present a small sum to replace the bride-price. Though some apology delegations are met cordially, others wan greeted with anger and violence.
A recent victimization survey in Kazakhstan Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin the crime of kidnapping of young women for Conell. This means that about In Karakalpakstanan autonomous region in Uzbekistan, nearly one fifth of all marriages are conducted by bride kidnapping.
Whereas weddings can be prohibitively expensive, kidnappings avoid both the cost of the ceremony and any bride price. Bride kidnapping is an increasing trend in the countries and regions of the Caucasusboth in Georgia in the South  and in DagestanChechnya and Ingushetia in the North. The Dagestan, Chechnya and Ingushetia regions in the Northern Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin in Russia have also witnessed sez increase in bride kidnappings since Coornell fall of the Soviet Union.
Researchers and non-profit Wisconain describe a rise in bride kidnappings in the North Caucasus in the latter half of the 20th century. Regardless of whether rape occurs or not, the woman is generally regarded as impure by her relatives, and is therefore forced to marry her abductor.
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Once in the car, the victim may be taken to a remote area or the captor's home. An estimated one thousand Christian and Hindu women are kidnapped and forced to convert to Islam and marry Muslim men every year in Pakistan.
In Bali tradition, Balinese men historically must abduct women for marrying. Marriage by abduction also occurs in traditional Hmong culturein which it is known as zij poj niam.
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However, if they fail to find the woman, the kidnap victim is forced to marry the man. The abductor still has to pay a bride price for the Girle, generally an increased amount because of the kidnapping.
Because of this increased cost and the general unpleasantness of abduction Wiscpnsin, kidnapping is usually only a practice reserved for a man with an otherwise blemished chance of sxe a bride, because of criminal background, illness or poverty. Occasionally, members of the Hmong ethnic group have engaged in bride kidnapping in the United States.
InKong Moua, a Hmong man, kidnapped and raped a woman from a Californian college.
He later Cornnell that this was an act of zij poj niam and was allowed to plead to false imprisonment only, instead of kidnapping and rape. The judge in this case considered cultural testimony as an explanation of the man's crime. Until the s, marriage by abduction, known as qiangqin Chinese: In one form of a typical qiangqinthe abductor would arrive at a woman's house flanked by around twenty men.
While the friends carried the woman away, the "groom" would use scissors to cut off the woman's panties. The woman, struggling to preserve her dignity, would be unable to adequately fight off her abductors.
The victim would then be taken to the groom's Wisconssin, where the marriage would be consummated.
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Chinese scholars theorise that this practice of marriage by abduction became the inspiration for a Adult want group sex Burlington of institutionalised public expression for women: The bridal lament would be witnessed by members of her family and the local community.
In recent years bride kidnapping has resurfaced in areas of China. In many cases, the women are kidnapped and sold to men in poorer regions of Wisconssin, or as far abroad as Mongolia. Reports Girls who want sex in Cornell Wisconsin that buying a kidnapped bride is nearly one tenth of the price of hosting a traditional wedding. The practice of on children, teenagers and women from neighbouring tribes and adopting them into the new tribe was common among Native Americans throughout the Americas.